Empowering Through Education

Empowering Through Education

Monday, March 7, 2016

What Is YOUR Spark!?!

There are 80 Million Youth in the United States  ~ 
What is our vision for them?

I have used the Search Institute's 'Developmental Assets' for over a decade and a half now while running the various mentoring programs I have directed from YFP in the early 2000's to TEAM from 2011-2015.  What a pleasure it was to come across this AWESOME TedX  Talk by Dr. Benson.  ENJOY!!!

And don't forget to ask yourself, 'What is MY Spark?'


Use this free quiz on the ParentFurther website to explore ways to boost your kids' motivation by understanding and encouraging their personal drive and deep interests - "sparks." Watch this video to learn more about how sparks help youth thrive.



Sparks are the interests, passions, or skills that "light fires" in people's lives. They engage and motivate us, fueling a sense of purpose and direction in life. It is particularly important for young people to identify and grow their sparks. Students who experience being "good" at something become more confident that they have what it takes to succeed at school, work and other areas of life - especially if those sparks are acknowledged and celebrated by adults and peers. It takes the "oxygen" of conversations and relationships to light up sparks.

Three Keys to Lighting Up Sparks


Sparks are most powerful when three things come together:


√ Young people know their sparks.
√ They intentionally work on or practice their sparks.
√ They have adults who help them with their sparks.


Visit Search Institute's research archive to find out more about youth and sparks.


Peter L. Benson, president and CEO of Minneapolis-based Search Institute, is one of the world's leading authorities on positive human development. Dr. Benson is the author or editor of more than a dozen books on child and adolescent development and social change, including, most recently, Sparks: How Parents Can Help Ignite the Hidden Strengths of Teenagers. Dr. Benson's international reputation in human development emerged in the 1990's through his innovative, research-based framework of Developmental Assets, the most widely recognized approach to positive youth developmtn in the United States, and, increasingly, around the world. Before joining Search Institute in 1978, Dr. Benson was chair of the psychology department and chair of the program in human development and social relations at Earlham College, Richmond, Indiana.

Friday, March 4, 2016

Excellence Lies Underneath The Surface . . .

Whatever it is you are reaching for, this message is for YOU!

Excellence takes time, but the pursuit is worth the effort; and 
YOU CAN DO IT if you want it bad enough.


 

For my High School and College Friends: Is College Worth It?

For all high school students to listen to and consider. While I am completely in favor of education, it's important to get an education in a way that will not leave you buried in debt for the rest of your life.

If you determine college is something you need for your chosen career, check out the ideas below the videoclip to avoid student loan debt.


 


  • Apply for scholarships . . . LOTS of scholarships. Start early and apply for everything you qualify for.
  • Start saving money NOW! (And hopefully NOW is while you are still in high school.)
  • Learn sound financial skills and develop good financial habits NOW! Understand the impact of debt on your future. Understand the time value of money and how it can work FOR you, or AGAINST you. Develop habits of saving rather than spending, responsibility rather than irresponsibility, personal choice rather than peer pressure.
  • Look for ways to finance your education beyond the first year of college when scholarships aren't as easy to come by, especially if graduate school is part of the plan. Do you have a product or business idea you could develop now to create residual income throughout your college years?
  • Make a plan from the beginning to get the education you need and graduate in as little time as possible rather than spending extra years (and $$s) exploring all the options.
  • Choose a college you can afford. Avoid crossing state lines . . . the cost of your education increases exponentially just by choosing a college that is 'out-of-state'.
  • Work a part-time job during college. Research shows that students who work part-time in addition to their schooling actually tend to do BETTER, and they also develop critical skills like time management, critical thinking and problem solving.
  • Live frugally during college so you can maximize the impact of your available resources
  • Live NOW like nobody else so you can live later like nobody else . . . DEBT FREE!!
The future is yours. 
Be intentional in creating a life you will enjoy living!




Thursday, March 3, 2016

Grants Available



DUE March 14
NO BULL is a global video contest powered by the voices of youth (ages 13-23) through short video documentaries, PSAs and vines that they write and produce. This contest challenges you to create a video to help end bullying both in person and online. There’s a public voting period to pick the top 25 videos to go to the final judging round. 15 finalists go to Los Angeles for the NO BULL National Educational Conference and Video Awards, where the winners are announced.
MORE INFO: http://ysa.org/briefing/the-great-american-no-bull-challenge/

DUE April 8
Under the Environmental Education Grants Program, the EPA supports environmental education projects that promote environmental awareness and stewardship and help provide people with the skills to take responsible actions to protect the environment. For this current grant cycle, EPA expects to award approximately 30 grants nationwide, each with a maximum award of $91,000.
MORE INFO: http://ysa.org/briefing/epa-environmental-education-grants/

DUE April 13
Show us your students’ creativity by re-purposing milk and juice cartons from your school cafeteria to either build or enhance your school garden. Educators can engage students in a hands-on experience creating teachable moments on environmental stewardship, sustainable packaging and healthy living. The best use of cartons in a school garden gives your school the chance to win one of 14 prizes with a grand prize valued at $5,000. 
MORE INFO: http://ysa.org/briefing/carton2gardencontest/




Powerful Over Your Own Money



LOVED this article by Suze Orman:

One of my favorite quotes in the article is:
"NOTE: This is not a slam on brokerage firms, stockbrokers, or financial advisors. When you find a great advisor, they are worth their weight in gold and you should tell everyone you know about them — but you have to be cautious — for many have their own interests at heart over yours. That is why you will never be powerful in life till you are powerful over your own money and how you feel about it, think about it, and invest it." (bold added by me).

This is the main reason I am in the financial services field. For years I didn't have anyone I knew well enough to be able to really trust to help me understand investing enough to be powerful over my own money. When I found a company that was going to pay for me to learn what I had always wanted to learn, and then pay for me to get the license to be able to do my own investing, I jumped at the opportunity. I have learned so much, and it is extremely rewarding to finally feel confident in handling my money and know that I can be 'powerful over my own money'.

I would encourage everyone to take the time to learn for yourself so you can be 'powerful over your own money . . ."  There are many resources available, but as Suze warns, be cautious! If you need help being pointed in the right direction let me know. While my focus is on being a 'great advisor' and 'worth my weight in gold' to my clients, I would prefer to have everyone know for themselves and be actively engaged and educated about their financial choices. No matter how good a financial advisor or financial coach is, no one knows you like YOU know you!!

P.S. The articles listed at the end of the article also like they are worth reading. It's always a motivating experience to read about successful people and how they got their start! I will definitely be reading more over the next few days.




Wednesday, March 2, 2016

Calling All Pet Lovers!! March is YOUR MONTH!

March Adoption Special

Every committed adopter will have the chance to draw for prizes and potential discounts up to $100 off the adoption fee!

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Some Thoughts on SAVING vs. SPENDING


I just came across a news story focused on a town that was very recently a 'booming oil town' but is now 'struggling to survive'. It is a perfect example of how precarious the economy, and our lives, can be. While things may seem stable and predictable at the moment, there are no guarantees that our circumstances will always remain as they are now. Whether it is the economy as a whole that changes, our individual family circumstance through loss of a job, or a health crisis, there are no guarantees what the future holds. (I also read two different news stories today about individuals experiencing major health crises in Mexico and needing to come up with large sums of money just to be treated so they can get back to their families in the U.S. Each one of us may want to ask ourselves if we would be able to come up with $50,000-$75,000 in a matter of a few days if needed. Given that statistics show that 76% of people are living paycheck to paycheck, we can safely assume that only a small percentage of people could say 'yes'.)

I am purposely not mentioning the specific town or individual names because my intent is definitely not to pass judgment on or minimize the devastation of the families experiencing these difficult circumstances. I only wish to emphasize the importance for each one of us to make the choice, and required sacrifices, to prepare for potential 'hard times' during the times of plenty (or even times of 'sufficient'). Unfortunately, human nature is to spend whatever we are making and live the maximum lifestyle that our current circumstance allows. If we get an increase in income we tend to increase our living expenses to match it~ buy a nicer car and/or a nicer home, spend more on vacations, enjoy eating out more often or just spend a little more freely than we did before. Again- my intention is not to pass judgment on anyone. I believe it's human nature, and if my own life had turned out more like I had planned it I would likely have done the same thing.

However, my life didn't turn out as planned, and while I would never wish my particular life challenge on anyone, I will acknowledge that my 'challenge' has had a silver lining to it when it comes to finances. As a single mother for 12 years who needed to be available to help my four children cope with the new circumstances they found themselves in and the experience they were having, money was usually very tight. Even when there was a more comfortable amount of money flowing in, there was never any guarantee as to how long it would last. In fact, the only thing I could be sure of was that at some point the cash flow would stop altogether for an undetermined length of time and I would need to live off of savings until things changed again.

This difficult circumstance actually became a tremendous blessing to me because I developed, out of necessity, the habit of saving as much as possible whenever possible. I learned to be creative in making sure that the kids had the things that they needed while spending as little as possible, all the time! My focus was always on building a cushion to prepare for the next 'dry spell', having no idea how long it would be or how much would be needed.

Having spent 12 years in this pattern, when our family reached the point where I went to work full-time and had a regular salary, it was natural to continue living frugally and sock as much as possible into savings. Given the newly increased salary, the savings built up much faster than it had in the past, allowing me to put away more and more for a rainy day-- or a change in circumstance.

Again-- no judgment intended, but simply for the purpose of pointing out the importance of changing our natural habits-- I go back to the news story about the struggling city. One man they mentioned in the article had been working in the oil fields for 23 years making a 6-figure income before losing their income in January 2014. Now they are experiencing a situation where they sometimes have to go hungry because there isn't enough food for everyone. The details given in the news story leaves one to assume that this family, like so many families, increased their standard of living to match the salary rather than making savings a priority. At that time the oil was flowing, therefore, so was the income; and there was probably no reason to believe that the situation would ever change.

Acknowledging that I do not know the particulars of the economy of that town, and more particularly the specific dynamics of the family, let's just explore some possibilities of what could have been. If we lived in a society where our nature was to save rather than to spend, over 23 years a six figure income would have built up savings that could last a family well beyond the two years mentioned in the article that the family has been living off of savings and is now experiencing such grave circumstances. The recommendation is to save 18% of our income, and to pay ourselves FIRST. Taking the lowest possible number of a six-figure income, $100,000 per year, and saving the recommended 18% of that would amount to $414,000 over the 23 years, and that is without any growth. Add in a very modest 6% growth rate and that more than doubles to $892,819. Figure in 3% inflation and it grows to just shy of $1.2 million. While I don't know the particular circumstances of the town or the family, it seems that living on $82,000/year, even with higher taxes taken out, in most circumstances would be very do-able. After all, statistics show that the majority of families are living on half of that, or even less. And with that kind of savings and investments, a family could live modestly, but comfortably, for significantly longer than 2 years in the event of an economic downturn. (Yes- I realize that the stock market is down right now which also would have an impact. Again- I am not passing judgment, nor can I factor in all of the various possibilities. I am merely trying to show the importance of, and encourage people to develop a habit of, SAVING when they can rather than SPENDING in order to be as prepared as possible for tough times that very likely will come at some point in life.)

I believe that the problem lies in the culture of spending that we are immersed in. While in most circumstances a family would be quite comfortable on an $82,000/year salary (after savings, before taxes), my guess is that many others in the town were also making a six-figure income and the 'norm' was to increase the standard of living as the salary increased. None of us want to be living on 'less' when those around us are spending 'more', and so it's natural that we would go ahead and spend 'more' as it comes in, rather than saving the recommended 18%, to keep pace with the community around us. However, in doing so we leave ourselves highly vulnerable in the event of an economic downturn or personal family crisis.

Again- my heart goes out to the residents of this town and all other towns experiencing similar challenges. With no disrespect or judgment against them, I only hope that this has helped those reading it to realize the importance of paying yourself FIRST! Whether you have a six figure income or a fraction of that, it is absolutely critical that you begin making the choice to live on LESS than you earn and set some aside for whatever the future holds. The best way to do that is to start with a budget. As one of my clients recently said, "Once we started controlling our money with a budget, our money quit controlling us. I had no idea it would be so freeing just to know where the money is going and be able to decide if we're good with that!"

There are a lot of free resources available through the Cache Valley Financial Wellness Project to help families take control of their finances. If you are not currently able to save as much as you would like, or if you are still in the debt elimination phase of your game plan, reach out to team.logan.utah@gmail.com to find out which resources are available to help you reach your financial goals. Financial freedom is one of the greatest gifts you can give yourself and your family, and developing a habit of making sound financial choices is one of the most important gifts you will ever give your children! Their future depends on it~